It's Your Turn: Your Soulmate is Waiting.

All you need is...A Clear Path to True Healthy Love

This 90-Day immersive program will radically transform the way you relate to yourself, dating, and relationships to prepare you for a healthy love that lasts a lifetime.

Apply Now

It's Your Turn: Your Soulmate is Waiting.

All you need is...A Clear Path to True Healthy Love

This 90-Day immersive program will radically transform the way you relate to yourself, dating, and relationships to prepare you for a healthy love that lasts a lifetime.

Apply Now

You deserve a lifetime love that grows deeper over time.

Without compromising what’s important to you, changing who you are, or wasting your time on the wrong people.

Because let’s be honest… You’re a catch.

You’ve done the challenging self-work in therapy, read all the self-help books, and put in the time to become self-aware.

You work hard every day to build the life you want through your career, friendships, hobbies, spirituality, and family.

All that’s missing is a partner to share all this abundance with.

You want to be in love and in a marriage-focused relationship.

You’ve tried everything to find “the one,” -- online dating apps, match making, and maybe even blind dates.

And you’ve absorbed every piece of dating advice out there from relationship gurus, therapists, happily married couples, and dating experts.

...So why are you still single?

It seems like no matter what you do…

  • You’re tired of wasting your time on dates that go nowhere.
  • You’ve been stuck in a cycle of dating optimism and disappointment.
  • You keep dating the same wrong person over and over again.
  • You can’t seem to find people who are serious about marriage.
  • You feel like you have to compromise or change who you are.
  • Every relationship ends in heartbreak and disappointment.

You’re exhausted, and on the verge of giving up.

You are not the problem. Your approach to dating is.

We are never taught a healthy way to find love.

Even so-called “dating experts” offer tricks, backwards advice like “lose weight,” “move to a new city,” “learn how to flirt,” or “get into the minds of men,” and empty promises like, “it’ll happen when it happens.”

But you don’t need that. You need a REAL plan for finding true love in a way that’s healthy and honors yourself.

How do I know?

I’ve been there.

And I wasn’t able to find my soulmate Michael until I learned to STOP the cycle of dating the same wrong guys and adopt an empowered approach to love.

If I can do it, you can too!

Imagine if...

  • You could stop going on ALL the dates, and ONLY date people with serious potential.
  • You had a clear vision of the person you need in your life and know with clarity who is the right one for you.
  • You knew how to find dates who are in full alignment with your values.
  • You could start building a relationship with someone who gives you what you need and makes you feel cherished, loved, and respected.
  • You found your soulmate without compromising on your needs, wants, and dreams for the future.

This reality is 100% available to you! No imagining necessary!

A Clear Path to True Healthy Love

A 90-Day immersive program that radically transforms the way you approach dating and relationships, preparing you for a true, healthy love.

Most dating advice only touches on superficial things without addressing the lifetime patterns that keep us stuck in a cycle of bad relationships.

And this can only lead to heartbreak and disappointment.

But A Clear Path to True Healthy Love takes a different approach.

This 90-day program provides a real, actionable plan based on principles, science, spirituality and transformation technology for finding true love while helping you experience the mindset shifts you need to stop the cycle of bad dates and get clear on what you want and need in a relationship.

More than just a plan, you get the necessary support from someone who has been there and done the tough work to find true, healthy love.

In addition to 1:1 support from me, you’ll have weekly group coaching sessions and a support system of other singles who are doing the work right alongside you.

With this program, you are never alone in your journey.

“I went from floundering with online dating to being the happiest I’ve ever been in my life by meeting this person that is so perfect for me. And I don’t feel like I compromised anything about who I am or who I wanted to be with!”

- Jodi
San Francisco, CA

You have a plan for everything else in your life… dating shouldn’t be any different.

Most people don’t become successful in their careers without the right mindset and a clear, strategic, and principled plan for making it happen.
Success doesn’t just fall in your lap. So stop expecting your soulmate to!
You’ve got to do the foundational work and build a plan for success if you want to find a true healthy love that lasts a lifetime.
And I’m going to help you do just that!


Your Love Strategist

Hi! I’m Bari, the creator of A Clear Path to True Healthy Love. And over 20 years ago, I was in your shoes...

As a smart, successful woman, I thought I had it all - a thriving business, great friends, fulfilling work, meaningful volunteer projects, and a rejuvenating spiritual practice.

But deep down, I knew I was missing something…
I longed for love, connection, and commitment.
And I knew that I could never be truly happy until I had a loving partner to share my life with.

But no matter what I tried, I still found myself in short-lived romances that ended in heartbreak, sadness, and frustration.

I felt exhausted, disappointed, and discouraged -- like many of you may be feeling now.

I started to fear I would never find a healthy, loving relationship with someone who loved me for who I was. Someone who shared my values and vision for the future.

And in my mid-thirties, I worried it may be too late for me to find my soulmate.

And the best part is -- I didn’t have to settle or compromise. I didn’t play any games or use any “tricks.” I became a confident, purposeful, and empowered dater who knew what she wanted and created a plan to make it happen.

Meeting and marrying Michael was a direct result of the approach to dating that has now become the Meet to Marry Method™ -- the same method I use to help singles find a Clear Path to True Healthy Love.

And over the past decade, I’ve been lucky enough to support thousands of singles just like you in their journey to finding a soulmate.

Now it’s your turn.

I’d love to help you break free from the trauma and challenges that are keeping you stuck in love. I’ll teach you how to adopt an empowered approach to dating, create an actionable plan for finding the one, and support you during the process.

"The Meet to Marry program changed my life! Bari incorporates a diversity in technique and expertise in her program that makes it like no other. Sophisticated, clever and spiritual - Bari Lyman is a compassionate and no nonsense genius.

Bari helped me get clarity around my fears, hangups, blockages and dreams. Then I finally met the one; we were engaged within six months and married seven months later. If you are serious about finding the one, believe in yourself, by investing in this program you are investing in yourself and your life."

- Sarah
New York, New York

What is A Clear Path to True Healthy Love?

Like the name of the program suggests, A Clear Path to True Healthy Love provides you with the foundational work and tools you need to create an actionable plan to find love.

I’ve designed this 90-day program featuring a course, group & 1:1 coaching, and community to offer you the support you need each step of the way.

This isn’t a DIY course filled with lectures on how to hypothetically find love.

A Clear Path to True Healthy Love is an immersive program that provides clear and actionable strategies alongside opportunities to apply what you have learned.

Every touchpoint is designed for aha moments and breakthroughs to support you as you leave your old stuck ways of thinking about love that haven’t worked to rediscover yourself and your truth.

It’s a real plan to get unstuck in love and summon your soulmate.

Here’s what your clear path to true healthy love looks like:

As soon as you join A Clear Path to True Healthy Love, you will step into an immersive experience that will change the way you relate to yourself and others in both dating and other relationships.

I’ve broken the program down into two essential phases:

Phase 1:

Finding the One

These 6 modules cover everything you need to remove your blocks to love:

  • Identify and fix what is holding you back from finding true love and keeping you in a cycle of unhealthy habits and relationships.
  • Clear out and transform the barriers to intimacy that manifest as fears, doubts, insecurities, incompletions, and limiting beliefs.
  • Break free from the past so you’re no longer dating unconsciously or recreating childhood problems in every relationship.
  • Move forward toward a future filled with healthy, lasting love knowing who you are and what you want.
  • Build a healthy mindset that allows you to open up space inside yourself for true healthy love to thrive.
  • Identify your true goals and aspirations for dating and finding love while getting clear on your vision for the future.

You’ll finish this phase with a newfound clarity on how you can break free from what’s keeping you stuck in love and move forward with clear goals.

Phase 2:

Dating Camp

These 6 modules focus on creating an empowered dating plan to find your soulmate:

  • Become an empowered dater who is in the driver’s seat of their dating life (and having fun!)
  • Discover how to find dates who are actually ready and looking for the same things you are and are on your timeline.
  • Design a structured, empowered dating plan to meet the right dates in a way that fits into your schedule and lifestyle.
  • Learn how to elicit meaningful conversations and know with clarity who is the right one for you.
  • Develop a clear and powerful way to approach each date as a meaningful encounter.
  • Discover how to end every date with clarity so you never waste your time on uncertainties.
  • Create a Soulmate Invitation Profile that invites in dates that already are dreaming of shared life with their soulmate.
  • Receive handholding and feedback on your empowered pipeline, dating with peace of mind to ensure you’re only going on dates that align with your emotional needs, vision, values and goals.

Support Throughout Your Journey

Through each phase of the program, you will get the support you need to stay accountable and make progress toward finding long-lasting love:

Companion guide workbook

with workshops, exercises, and guideposts

A daily text message

to provide encouragement and accountability

2 weekly virtual coaching sessions

allowing you to apply what you’ve learned and strengthen your mindset muscle

1 to 1 Bye Bye Blind Spots Session

to discover your blindspots and transform them so you can feel free and clear

1:1 progress calls

where you’ll get individualized support on the new paradigm you’re experiencing on your journey

Accountability partnership

to help you stay on track and connected

Secret FB community

for participants to share celebrations, updates, and support


Pay in Full


Payment Plan

3 payments of $3,333

“If you’re ready to get clear on your vision, values, and goals and find “that special someone” to create an extraordinary life with, this is the program for you. Through Meet to Marry, I have met the most wonderful man in the world, and I will be forever grateful.”

- Yael
Phoenix, AZ


Before you can begin to take an empowered approach to dating, you must do the work to build a foundation for love. This requires mindset and perspective shifts that will change the way you see yourself and your relationships.

Each course module is designed to guide you through the challenging self-work that will get you one step closer to finding love:

Phase 1

Finding the One: The Inner Shifts to Remove the Blocks to Love

Before you can find the one, you’ve got to be the one. And that starts with powerful self work to make space for love, heal your inner child, and clear your blocks before you can create a vision for the future.


Jumpstart the program by discovering the foundations for success. This module prepares you for your new experience as we change the paradigm for healthy love. You’ll get new ways of viewing this journey using real tools, daily support, and practices for stepping powerfully into this 90-day experience.


You’ll finally pinpoint the exact ways you are (and are not) truly ready for marriage by using my special 10-question diagnostic quiz. We’ll explore your answers in both videos and live coaching to gain a new clarity essential to creating the strong, healthy, vibrant foundation you need to find true love.


Learn exactly how to create space for love to thrive in your heart, mind, and soul. And discover a real process for “getting complete” even if you think you already are. You’ll also learn about a new concept of “choosing yourself & dating yourself.”


It's essential to discover all the disempowering, destructive stories you’ve been unconsciously telling yourself. They are the root cause of your dating and relationship challenges, and once they're uncovered, your love life will transform unbelievably quickly. In Bye Bye Blindspots, we go beyond just identifying your blindspots as I coach you on exactly how to break out of the traps that keep you stuck. You’ll create a new empowering statement to serve as your guide in creating the love-filled future you want and deserve.


Learn how to open up even more space inside yourself for true, healthy love to thrive. You’ll learn to challenge your thinking so you can know precisely how to handle challenges in a powerful, empowering, and reality-based way. Then, discover and build on what you’ve learned to apply daily mindset shifts that support healthy thinking and propel you to success.


This upbeat, eye-opening module will take your experience to another level. Now that you’ve raised your vibration, created boundaries, and healed your inner child, you are ready to create your future in a way that embodies who you are. You’ll put your vision down on paper and create a Clarity Vision Board.

Phase 2

Dating Camp: The Empowered Dating Plan to Find Your Soulmate

Now that you’ve done the real self-work to build a foundation for true healthy love -- it’s time to make a plan for love and learn tactical strategies and new mindset practices for making it happen.


Get prepared for success with the right foundation as we change the paradigm from Mystery Dating where you operate on autopilot to a brand new Conscious Empowered Dating. You’ll get a clear idea of what’s to come ahead in dating camp.


Learn how to synthesize what you discovered in phase 1 and create the kind of super clear, ultra vivid marriage vision that’s absolutely essential for attracting the right person into your life. In this amazing, uplifting, and exciting process, you’ll get a new set of tips, techniques, and guided meditations to keep you focused, energized, and moving forward!


Gain access to a new set of mantras for keeping yourself in a positive state of mind and heart, which serves as an attraction magnet for the right people. Discover how to create a bubble of healthy thinking, joy, and optimism wherever you go with the right tools for maintaining a positive environment.


In this super juicy module, I’ll reveal my special method for creating a step-by-step Dating Action Plan that feels amazing. This plan will give structure to your entire dating to marry experience and keep you on track for achieving your goal of meeting your soulmate. Instead of feeling disempowered and lost, you’ll have the steps you need to make it happen.


Say goodbye to all the confusion and doubt surrounding online dating sites. You’ll learn how to decide on the right dating sites and apps for you; reinvent your dating profile so its laser-focused, reflects your new empowered sense of self, and invites the right matches; select and get the best photographs of yourself; NO more feeling not good enough and being on a roller coaster and wasting time.


Learn how to show up in your essence and joy as you start your journey as a conscious, empowered dater. You’ll discover how to navigate both online and in-person dating events while managing communication with the right dates to keep things moving. Learn how to communicate authentically in pre-date phone calls, set up first dates that make sense, end dates with clarity, and manage a focused and healthy dating life so it’s fun and purposeful.

“Meet to Marry is the best coaching program I've ever done. Bari takes you from A to Z in the land of relationship and dating. She holds your hand throughout the very simple, straightforward process to find your soulmate. Guys, this system honestly works. I met my man, five months after starting her program. She's the real deal and so is the whole Meet to Marry Method”

- Jennifer
New York, New York

Real Love Stories From Meet to Marry

My favorite love stories are those where people overcome challenges and setbacks to find the everlasting love they deserve.

Through my programs, I have been lucky enough to experience many of these real love stories first-hand with my students.

Meet Rebekka

This successful, highly-intelligent, and super self-aware woman recognized that she was still hung up on her ex, and attracted to uncommitted guys, and she couldn’t trust herself to pick the right man. But knowing didn’t solve the problem. She needed help taking action.

We got to work to create a plan…

And in a few months she found a deep, loving, and adventurous relationship with a wonderful man -- Tim!

Rebekka and Tim are now married and have two children together. And in the process, Rebekka has discovered a new love for herself, more energy for her relationship, and a clear vision for her future.

Meet Michal

She couldn’t find a man who took dating seriously and wanted marriage.

After working with me on her blocks and fears, she was able to build a foundation of self-love and discover what she wanted out of a relationship.

Together, we built a plan to attract that person into her life.

Soon, Michal met Steve, a man who makes her feel loved and cherished as his #1 priority.

Michael and Steve now live in Gainesville, Florida close to both of their families, and are in a loving marriage where they do fun things together and continue to have deep conversations that build connection.

These are just a few examples of real love stories that started with the Meet to Marry approach. With my teaching and guidance, these women found lifelong love without compromise.

You could be one of my success stories.

But you’ve got to take action if you want to summon your soulmate.

Book a Call

Why Now?

A better question is… why not now?

There is no perfect time to fall in love. But you’ve waited long enough to find your soulmate. So why wait any longer?

For many of us, the pandemic has shown us in big ways how precious life is, and self-isolation has given us time to reflect on ourselves and our vision for the future.

While loneliness and desperation may start to kick in around this time of the year, making it easy to fall back into unhealthy dating patterns - you have another choice.

You don’t have to wait to make your dreams of finding and marrying your soulmate come true. You can start doing the foundational work and taking empowered actions to get you closer to finding love - TODAY.

But you have to take the next step.


In the end, YOU are the only one who has the power to change the future of your love life.

So you have two choices...

OPTION A | You can stay stuck in a cycle of bad dates and relationships that go nowhere...

Thinking that finding your soulmate just isn’t in the cards for you

as you see all of your friends enjoying loving, nurturing relationships.

Saying that your dream partner doesn’t exist

when you know in your heart that they are
out there just waiting to meet you.

Continuing to isolate yourself and stay lonely,

attending every holiday party and family get-together alone (OR stuck as a third wheel with friends when you truly desire to be with your true love).

Wasting your time on approaches and guesswork

that don’t get you any closer to true, healthy love as you struggle on a roller coaster of optimism to disappointment.

Pretending that you don’t need anyone,

and that you’re too intimidating though you long to meet someone who is inspiring and solid, accomplished, loves you for who you are and supports you in everything you do.

Dodging red flags to avoid more

and wondering why the ones you’re interested don’t even notice you when you have so much to offer.


OPTION B | You can find a CLEAR path to true healthy love with support the whole way...

Walking away with the confidence you need to find the person you will marry

and spend the rest of your life with.

Ending the loneliness and isolation

by giving your time, attention, and love to someone who wants the same things you do.

Committing to a process that will help you find your soulmate

someone who loves you unconditionally and supports your dreams for the future.

Discovering a new experience of yourself feeling

refreshed, alive, free and happy connected to your joy and your essence instead of feeling damaged or not enough.

Changing the old paradigm of repeating patterns from the past

of choosing wrong people and instead designing your love life from your truth and true value.

Remove and transform trust issues and walls that repel love

and instead, discover yourself newly by embodying your wholeness with clarity to step into a healthy relationship for life with someone you can trust!

Spending your time on the things that will get you closer to true healthy love

as you take a new empowered and principled
approach to dating.

Having the words, skills and tools to recognize your soulmate

knowing how to nurture a conscious, healthy, growing relationship that will continue to expand and thrive for a lifetime. enough.

I don’t know about you,

but happiness and everlasting love sounds pretty good to me…

“Bari is incredible! Her program and coaching brought me results in 4 months! I have met the One! I recommend Meet to Marry to many friends and cannot say enough how much this program changed my dating and my life.”

- Elinor
New York, NY

Our success rate is 97% for all who put in the work.

We guarantee that if you put in the work and engage in the process, you’ll gain clarity and shift your mindset so that you are able to be free of the blocks that are keeping you stuck. Your relationships will be richer and you will find true, healthy love. Most of our clients find their soulmate within a few months of starting the program and marry within a year of starting the Clear Path to True Healthy Love.


Here are the next steps for joining the program and finding your soulmate:

  • Click this link to book your call
  • You’ll go to calendar page to choose a good time.
  • If you’re ready to enroll now, click this link get started now.
  • You’ll get whisked to a magical payment page where you can make a one-time payment of $9,000 or 3 payments of $3,333.
  • Then you'll receive a welcome email with everything you need to start off powerfully including login and password to our members area and a link to schedule your kickoff call!

This immersive 90-day program IS for you if:

  • You’re committed to finding your soulmate and getting married.
  • You’re sick and tired of never having received the safe, nourishing relationship you desire.
  • You’ve dated the wrong person again and again -- and you’re tired of dating patterns that get you no where.
  • You’re tired of the roller coaster of optimism and disappointment that is your dating life - you’re ready to get off the ride and find the one.
  • You’re done with superficial dating advice and empty promises.
  • You want a REAL actionable plan for finding the love of your life.
  • You need support in your journey to keep yourself accountable and on track to achieve your love goals.

This program is NOT
for you if:

  • You don’t want to find your true love or experience intimacy with the right person and are content with dating around for the foreseeable future.
  • You’re content allowing fear to keep you stuck instead of instead of breaking down the walls and getting to a real solution.
  • You aren’t ready to transform your love life and the way you approach yourself and your relationships.
  • You don’t want the opportunity to be loved fully as you are.
  • You’re not open to learning or trying a new empowered approach to dating.
  • You’re not going to do the work to shift your mindset, stop the cycle of unhealthy habits, and find your soulmate.

"I now have an incredible partner after many years of going-nowhere dating. It's hard for me to imagine that this could have happened without Meet to Marry. Each step of the way, I feel extraordinarily grateful for Bari's coaching and the transformative exercises and advice on how to date effectively. Bari's loving guidance supported me as I reconnected with joy, so that I could meet the man who loves me for me and with whom I can be truly vulnerable."

- Alison
Brooklyn, New York

It's time to take action!

Continuing to do what you’ve been doing will only get you the same results.

And if you’re reading this, then there’s a good chance you’re not happy with the results you’ve been getting.

Sooo...isn’t it time to try something new?

Join my immersive 90-day program so you can experience the types of aha’s and breakthroughs that will transform your love life.


We've got A's for your Q's

How do I know if A Clear Path to True Healthy Love is right for me?

A Clear Path to True Healthy Love is ideal for any single person who is ready to do what it takes to find their soulmate without settling, compromising, or lowering their standards. If you’re tired of being alone, attracting the wrong type of people, or wasting time in relationships that are wrong for you, your outlook on love and relationships will be transformed in this program.

With a 90-day plan for success and support each step of the way, A Clear Path to True Healthy Love is perfect for those who feel like they’ve tried everything but can’t seem to find the right person for them. In this program, you will not be alone in your journey to finding a lifetime love.

In order to see results, you will have to do the work. So if you are the type of person that isn’t ready to shift your mindset and start approaching dating in a new way, this may not be the right program for you.

How much does the program cost?

You have two options for investing in A Clear Path to True Healthy Love. If you pay in full, you will make a one-time payment of $9,000 . Or you can make 3 payments of $3,333.

Will this work for me even if I’ve already been on a lot of dates?

Yes! Many of our students have been actively dating or taking long breaks only to go back and realize that nothing has changed, leaving them disappointed and frustrated.

They are stuck in unconscious patterns that lead them to date the wrong person, time and time again -- which doesn’t get them any closer to finding or marrying their soulmate.

By learning what is keeping you stuck in a cycle of dead end dates and trying a new, empowered approach to dating with a real 90-day plan, you can break this pattern and move forward to find the love of your life.

I’m in therapy, will this program be right for me?

Yes! Many of my clients are in traditional therapy or went to therapy in the past. Therapy is fantastic -- it’s just not the solution or a plan to find love.

What is the Meet to Marry Method™?

Founded by Bari Lyman, Meet to Marry Method™ is a transformational dating method that has helped thousands of singles get unstuck in love, permanently break free from unconscious dating & relationship patterns, and summon their soulmate.

What is the Meet to Marry Method™ success rate?

At Meet to Marry, we’ve been helping singles transform their lives, break through blockages to live their best lives, and find their soulmates for over 10 years. For all who do the work, they reac

When does the program start?

The program starts as soon as you register. With a full, rich curriculum, you’ll learn everything you need to break free from the past and become future-focused and find your true love.

What is the time commitment?

A Clear Path to True Healthy Love is a 90-day program. During the 90 days, you’ll complete 12 modules of curriculum and attend two weekly virtual coaching sessions where you can get 1:1 coaching. You will also be able to participate in a FB community with other singles and get an accountability partner to stay on track, connected, and in structure.

The first phase of the program happens within the first 3-4 weeks of joining and contains 6 modules. The second phase happens after this and offers another 6 modules. During the entire program, you will have weekly virtual coaching sessions that give you a chance to apply what you’ve learned in the program and work on your mindset.

The program is designed to be immersive, giving students everything they need to become an empowered dater and find their soulmate. Every touchpoint is designed for aha’s and breakthroughs to support students as they leave their stuck ways of thinking and rediscover themselves and their truth.

I’ve done other dating programs. Why is this one different?

Most of our clients have tried many different things that didn’t work for them because they were “law of attraction” focused, not action oriented or principled. Some were superficial like “get inside the minds of men” or they were not comprehensive. When the student is ready, the right teacher appears. Since Bari walked in the shoes of the singles she helps, she understands their struggles and created a program that mirrors the work she did to find her true love.

Not only is the Clear Path to True Healthy Love program comprehensive, but students have the added support directly from Bari, who helps them navigate dating in the real world with a tested process that’s effective, uplifting, and even spiritual.

Who is Bari Lyman?

Bari Lyman is the creator of the Meet to Marry Method™, a dating method focused on helping singles permanently break free from unconscious dating and relationship patterns so that they can find their soulmate.

After struggling in unhealthy relationship patterns for many years, dating narcissistic, emotionally-unavailable men, she discovered that being self-aware wasn’t an effective plan for breaking through lifetime patterns and overcoming a lonely childhood without healthy modeling. Unsatisfied with her love life and approach to dating, she realized she needed a new way. So she created it herself!

And soon enough, Bari was the first Meet to Marry success story. More than 19 years ago, she met and married her husband, Michael using her new, empowered approach to dating. Since then, thousands have followed in her footsteps to enjoy the benefits of true love and partnership that lasts a lifetime.

A final note from Bari

I’d like to take a moment to recognize you for wanting to take that next big step toward finding your soulmate. It can be scary to take that leap, but if you’re here, then you know how vital it is to clear the inner barriers and find true love.

I want you to know that I am here for you every step of the way. Throughout our 90 days together (and beyond), you will receive the coaching and support you need to transform yourself from within and finally be able to recognize and receive healthy love.

You deserve a true, healthy love that lasts a lifetime. You exist and therefore your soulmate exists too! Your person is out there and we will create the alignment for you to discover each other.

You just need to do the work to open yourself up and open your heart to the right type of person who will provide you with the love, support, and care you need.

If you decide to join, you will experience a transformation that will change the way you see and relate to yourself, dating, and relationships…like nothing you've tried before.

I walked in your shoes and I’m here to hold your hand and help you navigate through the process.

If you’re tired of wasting time on dating the wrong people and ready to step into a space of purpose and confidence to summon your soulmate, it’s time to take the next step.

I can’t wait to work with you and help you find the long-lasting love you deserve.

With love,


"I signed up with Meet to Marry after years of dating the wrong guys, wasting money on dating websites and unsuccessfully working with therapists. Once I graduated & had met someone Bari was available to help me continue on a path to marriage and with Bari's support I was able to finally get married at 50 years old for the first time. Bari helped me create my vision of marriage and achieve it. I strongly recommend this program for anyone looking for marriage."

- Beth
Chicago, IL

"If you're interested in learning how to find what you deserve in a relationship, look no further. I'm a smart, successful professional, and I was amazed at how little I knew about how to attract my soulmate. I can't believe how little I understood about being in a romantic relationship where both people's needs get met. Bari changed my approach and I learned how to love and care for myself, and how to date in a way that made sense. I'm happy to say that the program helped me meet the man who I know without a doubt is the one. Thank you, Bari!”

- Nancy
Columbus, OH

"I highly recommend this program. You learn to think and see the world in a new and healthy way, something that‘s valuable in every aspect of your life.

Bari is authentic and fully committed to your success. She lives what she teaches. so you have a role model and inspiration. This is a non-phony, super straightforward approach for anyone who really wants to find true, healthy and lasting love ❤️ (And yes, it exists!!) Thanks to Bari I have a wonderful husband who I met towards the end of the program and we are raising a family.”

- Rebekka
Hamburg, Germany

“I had always been attracted to men who were not available at an emotional level and did not fulfill my emotional needs. I had settled for unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships in the past.

In the program, I learned that believing in myself and committing to the Meet to Marry program was instrumental to my success. Once I learned to identify my core values and relationship vision, I was able to attract the right person.
Now that I’ve met my soulmate, my life has been enhanced and elevated!”

- Pamela
Bogata, Columbia

“Working with you in this results-oriented way helped me finally understand why I kept getting stuck in these unworkable relationships. I knew these relationships weren’t what I wanted, but I just couldn’t figure out what was going on…

You not only helped me get to the root of the problem. You helped me dissolve the problem and that - combined with the new dating system you taught me - drew me right to the man who’s now my husband.”

- Dina
Los Angeles, CA